As husbands we must follow the directions of God, no excuses. Adam was passive when Eve offered him the fruit of the tree that God told HIM was off limits. Then he blamed God and Eve for HIS disobedience basically excusing himself from blame. It is easy to do things that we know are wrong to keep the peace in our homes. But how peaceful is that peace if it causes us to loose the peace of God? We are not suppose to intentionally upset our wives by being dictators but instead we should be grace givers and God followers. And we should not get mad at our wives and at God when we get disciplined for our own disobedience. So Husbands love your wives while you stick to Gods Plan. Do what's right in the site of God and you and your family can continue to enjoy the peace that is only found in the Garden (Place God created for you to enjoy).