Often in Marriage we feel that God picks our side in disagreements
Maybe we go to church and our spouse does not
Maybe our past is not as bad as our spouses
Maybe we know all the right Christian statements to make
Maybe we think we are just a better person than our spouse
God does not side with us because we think we are good
As a matter of fact God does not pick the side of humans- It is humans that must pick the side of God- Blessing come when we are in alignment with the will of God
We must learn how to rely on the Word of God so we can know the will of God so that we can be in alignment with God.
When you and I start judging our spouse we often get a critical eye and before you know if we are out of the will of God but we don’t know if because in our own eyes we are better than our spouse so we feel God is now on our side. Not knowing we have fallen into correction.
Stop trying to make God decide between you and your spouse, instead you decide between your will and God’s