Take the limits off.

Many times we enter marriage with expectations of a wife that is a princesses and a man that is a knight in shinning armor. And when those expectations are not met we feel cheated. Marriage is embracing and loving your spouse understanding that they may have some imperfections and remembering they are also loving you with the same thing in mind. I have yet to meet a marriage with two perfect people in it but I have encountered many happily married couples with two imperfect people that are perfect for each other. Love the one God has given you "Flaws and All"