Marriage Takes Work

Many people view marriage as an escape from being single only to get married then day dream about being single again. Marriage is a covenant of 3. You, Your Spouse and God. And these 3 are supposed to be 1. But many marriage consist of 2 individuals that sometimes listens to the 1 that created them. But true marriage is 1+1+1=1. God=1 + Man(Adam) made in Gods image =1+Eve(made out of Adam) 1=1 God the creator, Adam his Image and Eve from the rib of his image. The fact is in order for a marriage to survive we must understand we we hurt or mistreat our spouses we are really hurting and mistreating ourselves and our God. 

If you are single learn to love yourself and God before you bring anyone else in the picture 

If you are engaged to get married be honest with who you are and where you are, address past hurts and disappointments before you say I do, so you can get past your pass so you can embrace your future. So you can love the one your with and not still struggle from the hurts of those they mistreated you. 

If your married, remember to love your spouse as you love yourself. And be true to the 3 that make 1 because of you mistreat 1 of the three you will have to answer to the 1 that created you in his image. 

Marriage is not easy but if we do it God's way it is not as difficult as some make it seem.